Do not delay Nikaah [Marriage] unnecessarily. Once Nikhaah is ready. The two parties are happy. Get the Nikkah done. So that any relation that happens between them thereafter, happens in a way that is permissible. Sometimes people say ‘No my daughter is engaged.’ Brother 3 years later your daughter (She’s engaged). Brother 3 years have passed. She had 2 abortions in the process do you know that? I’m not joking. I’m serious.
My parents! you don’t know what we know. They come to us for help. When they cannot talk to you. I know. We cry when we see the children of the good people sometimes people we know! And they come to us you know what. “I have this problem, That problem.” “But sister you are engaged to the man. How could this have happened!!!”